My Life.My Picolog.

Life is like Coffee

2011-06-25T13:54:00.001+05:30

Life is like Coffee Movie: "Do you know people that just seem to be happier in general? Do you say to yourself, "I want to be more like them"? Often, the happiest people in the world don’t have the best of everything...they just make the best of everything!"

50 Things Men Wish Women Knew

2011-04-26T16:05:00.001+05:30

50 Things Men Wish Women Knew
**Listen up ladies: We know you're keeping secrets from us. And even though you think you've got men all figured out, we're hiding a few things ourselves. But we're kind enough to compile this list of 50 universal guy truths that all women should understand. Read on and learn what your man is really thinking.
What He Wishes You Knew #1
Express yourself. It makes us proud, even if someone thinks you're wrong.
What He Wishes You Knew #2
You look hot in running shoes and shorts. And that top thingy with the stripes.
What He Wishes You Knew #3
Bare, tan shoulders are underrated.
What He Wishes You Knew #4
If you think I'm speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.
What He Wishes You Knew #5
If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get.
What He Wishes You Knew #6
Shopping is a chore, not an activity.
What He Wishes You Knew #7
When I screw up, go ahead and tell me—once.
What He Wishes You Knew #8
No question need ever be asked through a closed bathroom door if I'm inside. I love you less with each syllable you utter.
What He Wishes You Knew #9
I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.
What He Wishes You Knew #10
My guy friends. Not only are they not negotiable, they're your best sign that I'm not a whack job.
What He Wishes You Knew #11
Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.
What He Wishes You Knew #12
Leave the eyebrows alone. Plucked ain't pretty.
What He Wishes You Knew #13
You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously.
What He Wishes You Knew #14
When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down.
What He Wishes You Knew #15
I don't ask for directions because I'm just happy to be driving. Anywhere.
What He Wishes You Knew #16
Masturbation is merely practice for the big game. Encourage it.
What He Wishes You Knew #17
We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.
What He Wishes You Knew #18
But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?
What He Wishes You Knew #19
There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm.
What He Wishes You Knew #20
Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too.
What He Wishes You Knew #21
I just may lie to make you feel good. Don't be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.
What He Wishes You Knew #22
When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, I question your intelligence.
What He Wishes You Knew #23
You're really bad at faking it.
What He Wishes You Knew #24
If I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you're late.
What He Wishes You Knew #25
Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make us even more late.
What He Wishes You Knew #26
Giving me two or three choices, however, can be fun. Assuming you will change outfits in front of me. Slowly.
What He Wishes You Knew #27
Err on the side of hot; I love to show you off.
What He Wishes You Knew #28
Unless we're meeting my parents.
What He Wishes You Knew #29
When you call us at work "just to chat," we're not really listening; we're checking our e-mail.
What He Wishes You Knew #30
Spring means baseball and skirts. Doesn't need to be a mini-skirt; it's been a long winter.
What He Wishes You Knew #31
Chicks who drink beer are hot. Better yet: chicks who drink beer and watch the game. Better still: chicks who buy us a beer during the game.
What He Wishes You Knew #32
We don't mind being told we look good. Just don't call it a "cute outfit."
What He Wishes You Knew #33
We love ponytails.
What He Wishes You Knew #34
Being good in bed means a) enthusiasm; b) a sense of humor; and sometimes c) patience.
What He Wishes You Knew #35
The first time? We're as nervous as you are.
What He Wishes You Knew #36
A random unexpected grope is always welcome, even in public. Especially in public.
What He Wishes You Knew #37
Make us laugh and we'll want to hang around.
What He Wishes You Knew #38
Yes, I laugh really loud around the guys. And I always will, so deal.
What He Wishes You Knew #39
Sure, men stereotypically like to solve a woman's problems. But a woman who solves her own while we watch? Instant erection.
What He Wishes You Knew #40
You can pick the movie, but have a reason.
What He Wishes You Knew #41
Do not expect to have a conversation via text message unless you use the words "naked" and "waiting."
What He Wishes You Knew #42
Sometimes we wonder why any woman would want to be with us, much less someone as amazing as you. So, thanks.
What He Wishes You Knew #43
Anytime you cook for us, we're happy.
What He Wishes You Knew #44
If you can hit a golf ball 150 yards, we just might fall in love.
What He Wishes You Knew #45
No, I don't remember what he said next. Or she. Or anybody, for that matter. I'm a guy, not a tape recorder.
What He Wishes You Knew #46
We love you even more because you know we need to go out with the guys once in a while.
What He Wishes You Knew #47
And we love it when you hang with us guys, too.
What He Wishes You Knew #48
We have a keen sense of imminent danger. It sounds like, "Do you think she's pretty?"
What He Wishes You Knew #49
Don't rely on us for keeping you up on the news.
What He Wishes You Knew #50
Never say, "I know you better than you know yourself." Nobody does.

Hope you liked it =)

Price Tag

2011-04-01T18:41:00.000+05:30

So recently I came across this sweet little girl, Maddi Jane, who has a beautiful "Mraz" like effect in her songs.

Judge for yourself. Love the Lyrics too :)

Price Tag by Maddi Jane

Seems like everybody’s got a price,

I wonder how they sleep at night.

When the tale comes first,

And the truth comes second,

Just stop, for a minute and

Smile

Why is everybody so serious!

Acting so damn mysterious

You got your shades on your eyes

And your heels so high

That you can’t even have a good time.

Everybody look to their left (yeah)

Everybody look to their right (ha)

Can you feel that (yeah)

Well pay them with love tonight

It’s not about the money, money, money

We don’t need your money, money, money

We just wanna make the world dance,

Forget about the Price Tag

Ain’t about the (ha) Cha-Ching Cha-Ching.

Aint about the (yeah) Ba-Bling Ba-Bling

Wanna make the world dance,

Forget about the Price Tag.

We need to take it back in time,

When music made us all UNITE!

And it wasn’t low blows and video Hoes,

Am I the only one gettin tired?

Why is everybody so obsessed?

Money can’t buy us happiness

Can we all slow down and enjoy right now

Guarantee we’ll be feelin

All right.

Everybody look to their left (yeah)

Everybody look to their right (ha)

Can you feel that (yeah)

Well pay them with love tonight

Yeah yeah

Well, keep the price tag

And take the cash back

Just give me six streams and a half stack

And you can keep the cars

Leave me the garage

And all I..

Yes all I need are keys and garage

And guess what, in 30 seconds I’m leaving to Mars

Yes we leaving across these undefeatable odds

Its like this man, you can’t put a price on life

We do this for the love so we fight and sacrifice everynight

So we aint gon stumble and fall never

Waiting to see, a sign of defeat uh uh

So we gon keep everyone moving there feet

So bring back the beat and everybody sing

It’s not about

Yeah yeah

Oo-oooh

Forget about the price tag..

On A Good Day

2011-02-26T11:30:00.002+05:30

Little bit lost and...
Little bit lonely
A little bit cold here
A little bit feared

But I, hold on
And I
Feel strong, and I
Know that I can

Getting used to it
Lit the fuse to it
Like to know who I am

Been talking to myself forever...yeah
And how I wish I knew me better, yeah
Still sitting on the shelf but never
Never seen the sun shine brighter
And it feels like me, on a good day

I'm a little bit hemmed in
Little bit isolated
A little bit hopeful
A little calm

But I, hold on
And I
Feel strong, and I
Know that I can

Getting used to it
Lit the fuse to it
Like to know who I am

Been talking to myself forever...yeah
And how I wish I knew me better, yeah
Still sitting on the shelf but never
Never seen the sun the shine brighter
And it feels like me, on a good day

On A Good Day - Above & Beyond

Life is Beautiful =)

2011-02-18T23:24:00.002+05:30

Today, the 18th of Feb,2011 just needed that special mention.

From being woken up at 4am to talk to and give company to the girlfriend and stay awake with her for an hour while she puked and drank hot water...to attending a fun food production practical where I learnt to make jalebis ( an Indian sweet delicacy ) which when devoured when hot n crispy are the best ! From sleeping in class after a perfect lunch cooked by my friends and I during our practical where everything went right and everything tasted just as it should have...to meeting the Principal of my college with my DAD because I hadn't attended college enough and was bunking a lot and when we met her..she was the sweetest most awesome Principal ever man..#on a side note when I'd first met her when I started college I knew she was going to be awesome at what she did and just be damn chilled out.# moving on..so she tells my dad that I'm a good student and one of the brightest in class and that she did not wanna waste my dad's time coz there was nothing to complain about my bunking lectures coz I pretty much topped my class and all that jazz..hehe :) I wanted to hug her man..so much love I felt =) anyways moving on..I went to the girlfriend for whom I took the jalebis I had made at class.Her mum loved it and gave me some kinda heavenly blessing for getting the sick girlfriend some food :) hehe..From then working at a Broadway play Luv by Murray Schisgal that was adapted by Sandhya Divecha who calls her version " Love on the Brink "..I was selling wines to the audience at the bar.It was a fun experience..surrounded by the Page 3 crowd and a fun play while making money and watching it for free =D I LOVE Freebies !! anyways I then decided to have some roadside seekh kebabs and chicken biryani and end it with an ice cream..Just felt like noting this day down..for its happiness and its eventfulness :)

also i checked my weight today..i lost 4 kgs in 2 weeks :)

Tchah's & Muah's !!

2011-02-01T00:24:00.000+05:30

♫ ♪ Cause I love you more than I could ever promise.
And you take me the way I am ♪ ♫

mad laughter.

random funny shit.

stupid stupid really stupid arguments.

lots of love.

serious talk.

food.chocolates.

random dates.

walking away for being pissed off.sarcasm.

i love you's and wtf moments.

good/scary coincidences.

bike rides.
chocolates and carnations.

hugs n kisses.
terrace picnics.
happy smiles and blown up faces.

thank you assholes
you think you're cooler than me?
"hypothetical if's and when's"

many more hugs and kisses and lots of love.

apologizing and making up.surprises &
obvious surprises.

all that and SO MUCH MORE !! I have no idea how much i love you loony moony =*
to random dates to celebrate US &
to a MAD 2011 ahead !! :)

What I'm Looking For

2011-01-27T16:46:00.000+05:30

Well I don't know what I'm looking for

But I know that I just want to look some more

And I won't be satisfied 'til there's nothing left that I haven't tried

For some people it's an easy choice

But for me there's a devil and an angel's voice

Well I don't know what I am looking for

But I know that I just wanna look some more

For some people it's an easy choice

But for me there's a devil and an angel's voice

Well I don't know what I am looking for

But I know that I just wanna look some more

Well I don't know what I'm living for

But I know that i just wanna live some more

You hear it from strangers

And you hear it from friends

That love never dies

And love never ends

I don't want to argue

No, I don't want to fight

'Cause you're always wrong

And I'm always right

Well I don't know what I'm living for

But I know that I just want to live some more

I used to be involved and I felt like a king

Now I've lost it all and i don't feel a thing

I may never grow up

I may never give in

And I blame this world that I live in

I visit Hell on a daily basis

And I see the sadness in all your faces

I've got friends who are married and their lives seem complete

And here I am still stumbling down a darkened street

A darkened street

And I act like a child

And I'm insecure

And I'm filled with doubt

And I'm immature

Sometimes it creeps up on me

And before I know it I'm lost at sea

But no matter how far I roam

I always find my way back home

But I don't know what I've been waiting for

But I know that I don't wanna wait anymore

Looking for

What I'm looking for

Looking for

What I'm looking for

- Brendan Benson

Communicate !!

2011-01-20T00:36:00.000+05:30

The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.

-Tony Robbins

And To effectively communicate, we must realize that we are all different in the way we perceive the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

-Tony Robbins

Feeling Good..

2010-04-29T07:13:00.000+05:30

Check out Save Our Tigers | Join the Roar

2010-02-26T19:35:00.001+05:30

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ONLY 1411 TIGERS LEFT..:'(

CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE ROAR
There isnt much to say..

YOU ARE FREE..

2010-02-25T18:08:00.000+05:30

The world is meaningless, there is no God or gods, there are no morals, the universe is not moving inexorably towards any higher purpose. All meaning is man-made, so make your own, and make it well. Do not treat life as a way to pass the time until you die.

Do not try to \"find yourself\", you must make yourself. Choose what you want to find meaningful and live, create, love, hate, cry, destroy, fight and die for it. Do not let your life and your values and you actions slip easily into any mold, other that that which you create for yourself, and say with conviction, \"This is who I make myself\".

Do not give in to hope. Remember that nothing you do has any significance beyond that with which imbue it. Whatever you do, do it for its own sake. When the universe looks on with indifference, laugh, and shout back, \"Fuck You!\". Rembember that to fight meaninglessness is futile, but fight anyway, in spite of and because of its futility.The world may be empty of meaning, but it is a blank canvas on which to paint meanings of your own. Live deliberately. You are free.
- Anonymous Existentialist

Mad World

2010-02-15T00:11:00.000+05:30

All around me are familiar faces

Worn out places, worn out faces

Bright and early for their daily races

Going nowhere, going nowhere

Their tears are filling up their glasses

No expression, no expression

Hide my head I want to drown my sorrow

No tomorrow, no tomorrow

And I find it kind of funny

I find it kind of sad

The dreams in which I'm dying

Are the best I've ever had

I find it hard to tell you

I find it hard to take

When people run in circles

It's a very, very

Mad World

Mad world

Children waiting for the day they feel good

Happy Birthday, Happy Birthday

And I feel the way that every child should

Sit and listen, sit and listen

Went to school and I was very nervous

No one knew me, no one knew me

Hello teacher tell me what's my lesson

Look right through me, look right through me

And I find it kind of funny

I find it kind of sad

The dreams in which I'm dying

Are the best I've ever had

I find it hard to tell you

I find it hard to take

When people run in circles

It's a very, very

Mad World

Enlarging your world

Mad World.

- Gary Jules

Invictus

2010-02-06T00:10:00.000+05:30

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the Pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds, and shall find, me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll.
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

by William Ernest Henley

Dostana :)

2009-12-15T01:36:00.000+05:30

Jaane Kyun..,Jaane Kyun Dil Jaanta Hai..,Tu Hai Toh ,

I' ll Be All Right..I' ll Be All Right, I' ll Be All Right..

I havent even seen the entire film at a stretch..

and this movie means nothing to me.

This movie just like many others was a passing phase in my life..

but one of the best.

The fun-madness-laziness-movies-music-bike rides-foodies-

bonding-night out (nigdi)-more music-more food-more fun-more laziness-

more madness-arguments-singleness-support-jokes-lame jokes-

-checking girls out-and then it just stopped !!

Miss all of all that. Fun came.Lots of it.

Then Priorities came.Managing them got difficult.

Then slowly but surely it went away.Still Miss all of all that..

♥♥♥

Jaane Kyun..,Jaane Kyun Dil Jaanta Hai..,Tu Hai Toh ,

I' ll Be All Right..I' ll Be All Right, I' ll Be All Right..

Bad Day - Daniel Powter

2009-12-02T01:21:00.000+05:30

Where is the moment we needed the most
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost
They tell me your blue skies fade to gray
They tell me your passion's gone away
And I don't need no carryin' on

You stand in the line just to hit a new low
You're faking a smile with the coffee you go
You tell me your life's been way off line
You're falling to pieces every time
And I don't need no carryin' on

Because you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

Will you need a blue sky holiday?
The point is they laugh at what you say
And I don't need no carryin' on

You had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
The camera don't lie
You're coming back down and you really don't mind
You had a bad day

(Oooh.. a holiday..)

Sometimes the system goes on the blink
And the whole thing turns out wrong
You might not make it back and you know
That you could be well oh that strong
And I'm not wrong

(yeah...)

So where is the passion when you need it the most
Oh you and I
You kick up the leaves and the magic is lost

Cause you had a bad day
You're taking one down
You sing a sad song just to turn it around
You say you don't know
You tell me don't lie
You work at a smile and you go for a ride
You had a bad day
You've seen what you like
And how does it feel for one more time
You had a bad day
You had a bad day

jsut aonhter bda dya..

2009-12-01T20:50:00.000+05:30

you know those days when you;ve worked your ass off all night and have just slept for 3 hours and then gotten back to work..and then you wanna relax but you have to work it out..and then you have to go and do some other stuff..and it just goes on and on and on..and then people get sarcastic with you and dont really appreciate what you do for them and then you just are like..why..rather what am i slogging my ass off for and then its the first day of the month and your paycheck comes in and you get paid less just before festivities *christmas* and your just like where did i go wrong..why is the world conspiring against me TODAY...why why why/// and then you just get chummy at any thing that people around you say ; even if they try to pacify you.." stop treating me like a kid; stop talking ; shut your face; aaaaaaarrrrrrrrgghhhhhh " and they're like gawd your being such a kid nd your just like you dont kno wat its like and you dont know anything and blah blah blah..! then you get bruised and your having a bad day physically as well..!! wat a pain it can be..and then you just wanna screeeeeaaaammm and bang your head or slap somebody and throw something at someone or just cry..and then the tears come..and o they come...and your just angry with urself for being so stupid and being so mean and being so irritated for life being a bitch and then you realize that what am i crying for..i get my meals. i get my luxuries. i get my share of wants and needs. and then ur just crying and crying and you feel miserable for a moment like a dying phoenix but then its like a switch and from the ashes you rise to a new calmness that has set upon you and you feel like hugging someone and just crying some more as you realize that your getting frustrated for things that ...then at the end of the day you go for a shower before dinner coz you think its gonna relieve you of all the stress and tension during the day..you on the hot water but the geyser isnt working and you have to take cold water shower coz you;ve already applied soap and shampoo et al..gosh..its like its 2012 ..sheeesh...wat a day..and then you go shopping and and shop for nothing..waste of 4 hours..and then you get grief for that also..gawd..headaches...and with all this..i dunno where im gonna study next year..or do i wanna study next year..and then joyce is going away :( and ya we all have our problemoz...

anyways..im having CAD B now..so all's well..the best way to end my day..=)
jstu aotnher rcayz yda in ym lfie..
what's up ? !

Photo of the Month

2009-11-28T05:49:00.000+05:30

prash and me.dandiya at poona club.

Photography..

2009-11-28T05:43:00.000+05:30

wat does it feel when you always go click click click on ur camera.mobile.digi.slr.watever man..u wanna capture the moment coz it means a lot to you..i love clicking pics and being part of them not by being in them but by knowing that i created them. photography has become part of my life. capturing so many moments that i can always dive head first into those moments. making every pic i create a pic that inspires and generates thought is something i aspire to do everytime i hold that perfect box witha peephole to my life that works as my wand..
photography for me has been more about making pics self explanatory. i have to say that the last 3 years in my life have created many shifts in my life..so many opportunities that i have been blessed with..so much learning in the last 3-4 years in my life has changed everything i was in the first 16 of my life..i;v tried to portray life and how it changes and how it creates and destroys and starts and ends and exists and emotes and this is The Life..i try to do as much justice to the kind of pics i take..although i am still learning so much more in this amazing field in which you can learn and re learn and learn again and you can come up with as many perceptions about one thing in more than 10000 ways...im not a writer and i have average or below average vocabulary..but i can visualize..i can envision..i can imagine and create and put into images wat i feel and want to express..i think that works for me more than anything..and i make the most of it..thats how i develop my sense of visualization...it helps me blog without words..more like picolog..hope you have fun with the way i picolog..enjoy the moment. enjoy my pics.im sorry if you were expecting some awesome writings..well i might write here and there..but i ll be picologging more than blogging..=)

*i dont think there is any such word as " picolog"..i just created it.||Jabberwockied it :p ||

Photo of the Week

2009-10-25T23:26:00.000+05:30

again this was one the way to mahableshwar..love dawn !

Photo of the Week

2009-10-22T11:10:00.000+05:30

this was taken on the way to mahableshwar in a moving bus at around 8 in the morning

How To Tick People Off :p

2009-10-22T11:04:00.000+05:30

1. Leave the copy machine set to reduce 200%, extra dark, 17 inch paper, 99 copies.
2. In the memo field of all your checks, write "for sexual favors."
3. Specify that your drive-through order is "TO-GO."
4. If you have a glass eye, tap on it occasionally with your pen while talking to others.
5. Stomp on little plastic ketchup packets.
6. Insist on keeping your car windshield wipers running in all weather conditions "to keep them tuned up."
7. Reply to everything someone says with "that's what you think."
8. Practice making fax and modem noises.
9. Highlight irrelevant information in scientific papers and "cc" them to your boss.
10. Make beeping noises when a large person backs up.
11. Finish all your sentences with the words "in accordance with prophesy."
12. Signal that a conversation is over by clamping your hands over your ears and grimacing.
13. Disassemble your pen and "accidentally" flip the ink cartridge across the room.
14. Holler random numbers while someone is counting.
15. Adjust the tint on your TV so that all the people are green, and insist to others that you "like it that way."
16. Staple pages in the middle of the page.
17. Publicly investigate just how slowly you can make a croaking noise.
18. Honk and wave to strangers.
19. Decline to be seated at a restaurant, and simply eat their complimentary mints at the cash register.
20. TYPE IN UPPERCASE.
21. type only in lowercase.
22. dont use any punctuation either
23. Buy a large quantity of orange traffic cones and reroute whole streets.
24. Repeat the following conversation a dozen times.
"DO YOU HEAR THAT?"
"What?"
"Never mind, it's gone now."
25. As much as possible, skip rather than walk.
26. Try playing the William Tell Overture by tapping on the bottom of your chin. When nearly done, announce "No, wait, I messed it up," and repeat.
27. Ask people what gender they are.
28. While making presentations, occasionally bob your head like a parakeet.
29. Sit in your front yard pointing a hair dryer at passing cars to see if they slow down.
30. Sing along at the opera.
31. Go to a poetry recital and ask why each poem doesn't rhyme.
32. Ask your co-workers mysterious questions and then scribble their answers in a notebook. Mutter something about "psychological profiles."

Money..

2009-10-22T01:36:00.000+05:30

Love this definition of Money by Benjamin Zephaniah

Life's Definition according to wiki

2009-09-10T15:27:00.000+05:30

Life is a characteristic that distinguishes objects that have self-sustaining biological processes ("alive," "living"), from those which do not—either because such functions have ceased (death), or else because they lack such functions and are classified as "inanimate."

In biology, the science that studies living organisms, "life" is the condition which distinguishes active organisms inorganic matter, including the capacity for growth, functional activity and the continual change preceding death. A diverse array of living organisms (life forms) can be found in the biosphere on Earth, and properties common to these organisms—plants, animals, fungi, protists, archaea, and bacteria — are a carbon- and water-based cellular form with complex organization and heritable genetic information. Living organisms undergo metabolism, maintain homeostasis, possess a capacity to grow, respond to stimuli, reproduce and, through natural selection, adapt to their environment in successive generations. More complex living organisms can communicate through various means.

In philosophy and religion, the conception and nature of life varies, and offer interpretations in the frameworks of existence and consciousness, and touch on many other related issues, such as, ontology, value, life stance, purpose, conceptions of God, the soul and the afterlife.

Relationships :p

2009-09-10T15:01:00.000+05:30

Part of everyone's life it is..something everyone is born with and dies with.! Parents..siblings..friends and so on...we just get into more and more complex relationships as we grow...so much happiness and so much pain..a nice balance!
some of us can handle relations quite well some others cant and the rest dont really bother. we love and hate some kind of relationship at some point of time...friends or enemies..parents or siblings..there is always that someone who matters to us apart from ourselves..

what then would the world be without relationships??what would the future of humans be like??would we exist ?? would we evolve??we the world progress?? imagine the world with humans by themselves not giving a damn about anyone else..not loving or hating or feeling any emotion towards each other..just indifferent and oblivious to the fact that one can relate with another living being..life would be boring

how often do we take relationships for granted...how often are we oblivious or indifferent to the many people we relate to everyday...do we really care when we say "what's up" or has to it just become small talk jargon..do we really listen or just keep talking..do we care about someone's opinion ..do we think from the other person's perspective..do we ??

Taking Orders...

2009-04-23T20:33:00.000+05:30

i am a child..a boy..a teenager...a guy...a man...an adult..an employee...a citizen...a human being =)
at every stage of life i have to take orders from someone above me...how long do i have to take orders...how long will this circle continue for...and i will also be in a position to give orders and order many people around..but is it necessary...is it something i want to do..is it something that if not done will cause harm to someone..?
why do people order others around...why do some people have to always be pushed around and bullied..? why cant everyone just hav the freedom to do wat they wanna do..as long as they dont encroach on another human being's freedom...
i kno taking orders has its pros and cons...but today m just talkin bout its cons. my dad so many times "TRIES" to order me around...i cant take it....i guess its the Alpha Male thing =)
" go do this...go do that....i want this to be done by this time...go to your room...go study...go get a job...do something constructive..go do this ...go do that"
gawd! its so damn irritating...its so damn pissing off...just let me be...why cant i do things at my pace and time..its not like I'm stupid or irresponsible or dont hav a goal or a focus...!
No more of taking anyone's shit..no more of taking orders !

Rock on =)

How precious is life ? Our own and our loved ones..

2009-04-23T01:11:00.000+05:30

i had a dream today while taking my afternoon nap about this one person who means the world to me
death...wat if u die in your sleep...wat if..?! you never get the opportunity to tell them how much you love them..and so i make sure i never loose an opportunity to tell them that.
wat if u were in such a position whr you see your loved one fall from a building and watch them reach the ground with a BANG !!!....and cant do anything bout it...gone thru dat..?! its a scary thought...and even more a scarier dream..it scared the crap outta me..and my dreams arent blurry..they're super real !
i just think that life ..ours and our loved ones...matters so much...that we'd do anything to save it or keep it secure...even if we're takin risks !
wat is life..?
is it something from the time we're born till the time we hit the grave..?
is it something that we make of ourselves ?
is it our past present and future..?
is it temporary..? or can it be engraved in the life's of others..?
i dont think there can be one definite answer to wat life is..its a very opinionated question...
but i kno that life is precious..precious enough when we hav a goal or future that we're looking forward to....precious enough to live for others and enjoy the mysterious future ahead of us..
life is awesome..i dont give a damn if we waste one moment or many years...coz that can be part of our life..i dont believe in "lets not waste even a single moment..." its bullshit..i think its ok to waste some time here and their..its all good to waste time doing things that dont make sense and are totally unreasonable and yet be happy or content wit it..coz we derive happinesss from it...life's awesome...lets just live every moment and not regret anything...!
Rock On =)